![]() ![]() They quit jobs, broke leases and moved out of state. I'm sure this was not in reaction to me, I just missed these guys as friends. You're a good friend so I feel I can tell you that I've not thought of you that way.Īnd then afterward each one moved within a few weeks, never to be heard from again. O: And right now, you've got my heart thumping. Outcomer (O): I want to tell you something personal. Maybe the vestiges of a free-swinging, free love society were still hanging in the air, but in both cases the conversations went something like: I was friends with two crush-induced outcomers (separated by vast geographical distances, so I never took this as some irresistable force of my attrativeness or personality). I wish this were available for outcomers back in the late 70s early 80s. Posted by jonmc at 6:17 AM on September 20, 2006Ĭhapter Two: The Crush-Induced Coming Out Plus, if you do well, it's a really great ego boost. You'll get a clear picture of just how attractive you are, which you won't get as easily from women for a variety of reasons. Not only is it culturally enlightening, it's useful. Every straight guy should go to a gay bar and wait to see how he does. (It happens to me a lot for some reason). Lord knows our hilariously complex world could use that. Thought it was advice for straight people when they got hit on by one of us. One day he pulled my friend Letty aside and said "I have something to tell you." Efraim was so flaming you could toast marshmallows off him from across a freeway. In college, I casually knew a dude named Efraim. Oftentimes, straight folk have primitive gaydarthemselves or the closeted gay person is unconsciously sending up huge flares. This is probably a good idea, but from my extremely limited experience, it may not strictly be neccessary. ![]()
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